I want kids my partner gets so stressed out around them though and doesn't want any.
When I was dating my wife we were dating about 6 months. she said she wasn't sure if she wanted kids. I told her if she didn't than this is over right now. She than decided she did.
Me and my new husband are definitely in this predicament right now. He wants a child but my children are older. I have also raised my kids I currently have by myself. He has never had children. The thought of another broken family and ruining more children eats me alive.
my husband wanted more kids. We have 1 together and I had one prior but he has adopted her. He wanted more for years and years and I always said no. The one we have together was a very sick/hard baby. Now the one we have together is 14 and is great and my prior is 19. We will be starting over. He now is ok with us not having anymore. I think he is grateful in a way we didnt since we are on the home stretch.
Before getting married, my husband & I agreed on two kids. After having our first, I struggled mentally & now want to only have one. He now wants a large family (5 kids). I wish he said this before getting married because I wouldn't have gone through with it. I think a small family with a happy mom is better.
currently pregnant with our second that we planned. And now my husband is wanting to be done and have the surgery. I want 2 more.