When my friend’s father was dying, he asked her to go back to the LDS church so their family could be "together forever". (She is in her mid 40''s) changed her lifestyle completely, sold their party boat and forced her husband to join the LDS church too.
My grandpa’s dying wish was for my estranged uncle to reconcile with our family. He agreed and then didn’t do it. Didn’t even come to my wedding, haven’t seen him in 15+ years
Grandmother wanted me to reconcile with my abusive father. I feel bad but it's not going to happen.
Parents put brother in foster care at 16. He’s now 32 hasn’t spoken to them since. His close friend asked him to forgive and reconcile on his deathbed. That was 5 yrs ago. Still no forgiveness.
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